Vlog 34

 That is what I also have found so frustrating about narcissistic abuse, because I, too, am one of the most tolerant people and most enduring people in the world.  But all that means is that they prolong the torture by extending it out to the complete extent of every last bit of stoicism their victim has in them.   And then when they are finally done with you, they come up with a conclusion that you are them, and they are you, and that you simply can't endure even a little bit of hardship,  and that is why you are so broken now -- when the opposite was always true (and they knew it).

Over the many years, my patience with narcissists has become shorter and shorter, as I know how they work now.