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The hardest growth was in overcoming my sense of male domination. I thought men were gods. But then I was sucked into the Western gender maelstrom of men behaving badly. This diminished my sense of justice.  It took me decades to work myself out of my own restrictive cognitive framework of a very extreme christianity, so as to do the requisite remapping. By comparison doing one's own shopping seems like a really easy fix for reversing gender domination.