So it all becomes clear to me now. One of the things you cannot do, when you are stressed, and unable to find your feet, is to represent your needs and interests in terms of a balanced perspective. There are those who either deliberately or unwittingly keep you unbalanced, by throwing out criticisms every time you try to stand up straight again. Then there are those who put some effort into knocking you down as you try to arise because it serves to make them feel good in relation to somebody (and confirms their biased views about women or minorities, too.)
So one of the things that you cannot do when your are very stressed, and have been for a long time, is to stand up properly.
And failing to stand up properly will always, in its turn, leave a weak impression.
)))) so the cycle continues ((((
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