+Ro Aroha Their hidden self is only in that they get you to misunderstand their real tone and real motives. They allow you to think they are just being playful or expressing bonhomie, or whatever, but their real tone is to undermine you. In fact, though, they say everything that they have to say, only in a veiled way. If you look purely in terms of the content of what they say, there is nothing hidden.
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