Jennifer Armstrong1 second ago
It's the current cultural logic that we only communicate to get narcissistic supply or "attention". This is the prevailing logic on the basis of which the victims of narcs can seem like bigger narcissists than the perpetrators, because they are more likely to try communication to address the issues, whereas the perp himself (or herself) is laconic and often seems emotionally withdrawn. If we can get people to think in a different cultural way, so that they don't automatically assume that forms of communication are ways of getting attention, then we can start to erase this culture of narcissism.
