Fear of oneself

Yes, there is a fear of "the feminine", but actually if you do not create a narcissistic mechanism of metaphysics, you will not divide the human psyche into two parts. Nature itself "gender bends". That is completely natural. It is not organically possible to be one side of the metaphysical divide or another, since the divide is man made. The men who embrace strong masculinity as a metaphysical precept will also suffer from what they have repressed in themselves. They will be oversensitive to slights, because they have repressed rather than integrated their emotional sensitivity. The best way not to be sensitive is to be emotionally integrated, but patriarchy takes the principle in the wrong direction. So you end up with a lot of rigid, fearful men.