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Of course it also illustrates how much people are unconsciously beholden to their gender biases.
Sadly, people are much more respectful and deferring to those they think are male. These experiences showcase to me very personally, the ongoing irrational gender discrimination.
P.S. - Your fears remind me of Camus" central figure in The Stranger, who is judged on his lack of "appropriate" emotional reactions. Definitely a cautionary tale about social perceptions.I worry about these kind of biases surfacing in the NA community.
Thank you for your reflective comments! They make a lot of sense, especially the gender biases.
In my case it is simply that I am not well-adapted to Western society, and I do not think that what underlies this can be equated with a determinant of sensitivity or insensitivity. i went down that track of investigation for a long time, and I did not come up with a variable that by adding or subtracting from I would be able to pursue adaptability.
In effect, then, it seems I am well-adapted to a war environment, but not to peace, or to civility. And I have also found that because of the gender biases, people assume that my emotional detachment is a mask and try to pull it off my face (pull my face off). This puts me on a war footing with them, which is neither good or bad in itself, but sometimes very good for me to align my emotions with my true self and put my strengths into action.